If traditional dating has not served you well in the past it is probably because you have been following the mainstream and operating by default. If you are ready for more positive experiences, it may be time for you to consider taking a different approach. Try dating law of attraction style.
Life is supposed to be fun and that includes dating. When you have an awareness of Law of Attraction and how it effects everything in your life, your dating experiences will be more enjoyable and you will have more satisfying outcomes. Throw in the Law of Deliberate Creation and the Law of Allowing into the mix and it becomes a whole new ball game! Get ready for a string of home runs!
Dating Law of Attraction Style
Here is what you need to know before and when you enter the dating scene:
1. Connect With Your Source
Make your relationship with your Source (God) be your top priority. “There is no relationship of greater importance to achieve than the relationship between you, in your physical body, right here and now, and the Soul/Source/God from which you have come. If you tend to that relationship first and foremost, you will then, and only then, have the stable footing to proceed into other relationships.” – Abraham-Hicks
2. Be the Kind of Person You Want to Date
If you have a certain kind of person in mind that you would like to spend time with, or maybe spend your life with, you must be a vibrational match. Law of Attraction says “that which is like unto itself, is drawn.” In other words, if you are not happy with yourself, you will attract dates who are not happy with themselves. Consider the traits you are looking for in a person and if your own current traits will match up. The people you attract will be a mirror of who you are.
3. Treat Yourself and Others How You Want to Be Treated
If you want to be treated with respect, be respectful to yourself and those around you. If you want someone who is affectionate, give yourself hugs. If you want someone to whisper sweet nothings in your ear, say words of love and encouragement to yourself. Personal development teacher and author, Louise Hay, advises people to look themselves in the eye every morning in the mirror and say “I love you.” Start loving yourself and you will attract loving people.
4. Get Into the Feeling of What You Want to Experience
Imagine yourself after the date and how you would like to feel. Imagine the chemistry between the two of you, the conversation, the touches, the eye contact. Imagine how these interactions make you feel. The Law of Attraction will yield to you whatever your emotions are so your feelings will draw more of the same to you. This is truly the key to having whatever you want and is worth investing time into mastering.
5. Let Your Intention Be to Have Fun
Instead of getting out there with the expectation of finding “the one”, let your goal be to have fun, to feel good, and connect with others for the simple pleasure of enjoying their company. Let go of any agenda and simply go with the flow. This puts you in allowing mode and that’s when “the one” will most likely cross your path.
6. Follow Your Inspirations
If you are not feeling inspired to date, then wait. It is your Inner Guidance telling you that you are not yet up to speed with what you want. If you feel inspired to join an online dating site, then do it. Someone who is a vibrational match may be waiting to connect with you. Or your perfect date might be someone in your own back yard who shows up one day at the grocery store, just when you gave up thinking there was anyone worth dating in your area. Be open and stay tuned in to the inspiration your Inner Guidance gives you.
7. Be Easy About It
Dating can be a joyful, playful experience that enhances your life and contributes to your personal growth. Just remember to be easy about it, don’t take things too seriously and let your dominant intention be to feel good. The Universe will take care of the rest.
“In order to find what you are calling the “perfect mate,” you must first be the perfect mate. In other words, you must consistently emit a Vibrational signal that matches the mate you desire. The not-so-perfect relationships that you have observed, or lived, have given you wonderful opportunities to decide and fine-tune the kind of relationship you would like to have. And so, you have only to think about those wanted characteristics of a relationship in order to train your own Vibration into one that matches your desire.” – Abraham-Hicks