“Every person with whom you interact is a part of the person you are becoming. Not a single interaction with a single person is left out of the process of your becoming…Your interaction with others helps you to define your own personal preferences, and even if you are not speaking those preferences out loud, you are projecting them Vibrationally, and they become the foundation of your very expansion.” - Abraham-Hicks
You have the power to create loving, harmonious relationships!
Relationships are one of the most significant aspects of your physical life experience. Every person you encounter, no matter how brief, helps you to define your personal preferences and contributes to your expansion. You could not be who you are without interaction with others.
Others are your co-creators and your experiences with them is the basis of the expansion you achieve as you grow through life. They contribute to your greatest joys and your greatest sorrows, too. Through these contrasting experiences with others you are able to identify what you do and do not want in your life.
Relationships allow us to explore the many choices available to us, not only regarding lifestyles, but also attitudes, beliefs, behaviors, personalities, moods, emotional responses, reactions to situations… you have an abundance of options to choose from as you expand on who you are.
Every person is responsible for their own happiness. If you are constantly trying to please others, and enable them to believe their happiness depends on your behavior rather than their choices, you will become weary of attempting the impossible task of making them happy at the expense of your own well-being. Eventually you will lose your sense of freedom.
“In order to find what you are calling the 'perfect mate,' you must first be the perfect mate. In other words, you must consistently emit a Vibrational signal that matches the mate you desire. The not-so-perfect relationships that you have observed, or lived, have given you wonderful opportunities to decide and fine-tune the kind of relationship you would like to have. And so, you have only to think about those wanted characteristics of a relationship in order to train your own Vibration into one that matches your desire.” - Abraham-Hicks
As with all the other areas in your life, your relationships (or lack of them) are a reflection of what you are vibrating; what you're thinking and feeling. The people in your life mirror what you’ve got going on internally.
If you have a relationship you’d like to create or transform, it starts with you – and your vibration. Remember that like attracts like, so when you change what you think and feel, the people in your life will reflect that change. Until you change what you’re vibrating, you will experience the same things with others in your life.
Whether you want to attract a soul mate or improve an existing relationship, you can create connections that empower and uplift you. Schedule a coaching session to manifest more love into your life!
Law of Attraction Resource Guide: Relationships - Almost 100 articles and Abraham-Hicks videos about every aspect of finding and maintaining a relationship.
The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships by Esther & Jerry Hicks - This book uncovers a myriad of false premises that are at the heart of every uncomfortable relationship issue. Abraham says: “It is our desire to help you to solve the mystery of those seemingly impossible relationships; to sort out the details of joyously sharing your planet with billions of others; to rediscover the beauty of your differences; and, most of all, to reestablish the most important relationship of all: your relationship with the Eternal, Non-Physical Source that is really you."